Love The One You're With

Will Young - Love The One You're With

If you're down and confused
And you don't remember who you're talking to
Concentration slips away
Cos your baby is so far away

Chorus:
And there's a rose in a fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
And if you can't be with the one you love honey
Love the one you're with

Don't be angry, don't be sad
Don't sit crying over good times you had
There's a girl right next to you
And she's just waiting for something to do

Repeat Chorus
Turn your heartache right into joy
She's a girl and you're a boy
So get it together make it nice
And you won't need anymore advice
Repeat Chorus

This goes out to all. Sometimes, you have no choice but to try to forget the one/ones you loved. Perhaps by loving the one you are with, you can free yourself from the pain and sorrow. Save yourself from all the heartaches. It's not easy, it comes with time. But sooner or later, you gotta let go. Please remember, giving up does not mean you are weak, it just means you are strong enough to let go. Just turn your wounds into wisdom. Carry along with you the happy and good memories throughout your journey in life to pull you through the tough times. Let the memories live in your heart, not in your mind.


















Don't be like him.






















Learn to let go.

Prawn, Prawning, Prawned.

Prawning was fantastic. 11 prawns in like 2 hours? Considered quite a feat for 3 noobies. The thrill of prawns tugging onto the hooks and eventually getting hooked is woohooo. =) Indescribable fun. I know this sounds sadistic. But try it, and you'll understand.

Steamboat was great, more joined and it was merrier. The one on one service made our service tax really worth it. And the boys/guys were really happy with the attention. (inside joke)

Oh ya, finally a spin in Gn's car. Someday, my turn. (Provided in the east, Ha!)

Next goal: Search for location of Pasir Ris Prawning area and spend the whole day prawning. It's time to come to the East, people!

Ok, this is not our picture. Cuz i left the darn camera in my car. But it looks like this when caught.

Nostalgic. What a familiar route home.

Holy Wholy.

"When you are in a relationship, you do not think less about yourself. But rather, you think about yourself less." How True.

Jaded.

Today is the second day of Chinese New Year, and all I can say is that it is extremely boring, tiring and time consuming. I would rather spend the time sleeping, seriously. Doesn't help that my sis was not here with me during visiting on the second day. =( Cuz she flew to Shanghai in the wee hours of the morning, mind you, it's 530am. Ridiculous. They should be giving her a big FAT ang pow. So much so for festive mood.

I guess growing up really turns us into some jaded, sad and cynical adults. Haha, quite an accurate fact considering I'm turning 21 this year. It's like nothing can get me excited or hyped up anymore. Unless you're talking about bungee jump. Hmm but then again, I probably won't be as fired up about it as before. Oh Whatever, I miss my old self!

Talking about Chinese New Year, guess I would be "celebrating" my 2010 Chinese New Year in Buffalo. Save me all the hassle of going house visiting. =P Or maybe it will give me sufficient time to miss Chinese New Year in Singapore. =)

Time to re-evaluate life.

There's one sad truth in life I've found.
While journeying east and west -The only folks we really wound,
Are those we love the best.
We flatter those we scarcely know,
We please the fleeting guest,
And deal full many a thoughtless blow
To those who love us best.

~Ella Wheeler Wilcox


And so, I have decided that my new year resolution (although a tad too late) would be....

to treat people who matters to me well and to the best i can. The rest of the people who are not within the circle of trust, do not really matter.

"Present your family and friends with their eulogies now - they won't be able to hear how much you love them and appreciate them from inside the coffin. "



Boo to those outside the circle of trust. Sorry! I just wanna give my best to people who cares most. =)

HAHA

The over-usage of touch screen devices resulted in me touching the screen of my laptop to click on a link. How smart.

Yeah! Tomorrow is thursday! Last school day of the week. And, I thank God for chinese (myself) because I'm having a week off school the following week! HAHA. Life's good, for the moment. =)

The Long Goodbye.

Ronan Keating - The Long Goodbye

I know they say if you love somebody
You should set them free (so they say)
But it sure is hard to do
Yeah, it sure is hard to do
And I know they say if they don't come back again
Then it's meant to be (so they say)
But those words ain't pulling me through
Cos I'm still in love with you
I spend each day here waiting for a miracle
But it's just you and me going through the mill
(climbin' up a hill)

[Chorus]

This is the long goodbye
Somebody tell me why
Two lovers in love can't make it
Just what kind of love keeps breaking a heart?
No matter how hard I try
You're gonna make me cry
Come on, baby, it's over, let's face it
All that's happening here is a long goodbye

Sometimes I ask my heart did we really
Give our love a chance (just one more chance)
and I know without a doubt
I turned it inside out
And if we walked away


would make more sense (only self defense)
But it tears me up inside
Just to think we still could try
How long must we keep riding on a carousel
Going round and round and never getting anywhere?
(on a wing and prayer)

[Chorus]

This is the long goodbye
Somebody tell me why
Two lovers in love can't make it
Just what kind of love keeps breaking a heart?
No matter how hard I try
You're gonna make me cry
Come on, baby, it's over, Let's face it
All that's happening here is the long goodbye

[Chorus x2]

The long goodbye
The long goodbye
This is the long goodbye
Someone please tell me why
Are you ever coming back again
Are you ever coming back again
Are you ever coming back again
Guess I'm never coming back again



















So long, Goodbye. The memory of love's refrain.

Leave Out All The Rest

Linkin Park - Leave Out All The Rest.

I dreamed I was missing
You were so scared
But no one would listen
Cause no one else cared

After my dreaming
I woke with this fear
What am I leaving
When I'm done here

So if you're asking me
I want you to know

[Chorus]
When my time comes
Forget the wrong that I've done
Help me leave behind some
Reasons to be missed

And don't resent me
And when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory

Leave out all the rest
Leave out all the rest
[End Chorus]

Don't be afraid
I've taking my beating
I've shared what I've been

I'm strong on the surface
Not all the way through
I've never been perfect
But neither have you

So if you're asking me
I want you to know

[Chorus]
When my time comes
Forget the wrong that ive done
Help me leave behind some
Reasons to be missed

Don't resent me
And when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory

Leave out all the rest
Leave out all the rest
[End Chorus]

Forgetting All the hurt inside
You've learned to hide so well

Pretending
Someone else can come and save me from myself
I can't be who you are

[Chorus]
When my time comes
Forget the wrong that ive done
Help me leave behind some
Reasons to be missed

Don't resent me
And when you're feeling empty
Keep me in your memory

Leave out all the rest
Leave out all the rest

Forgetting
All the hurt inside
You've learned to hide so well

Pretending
Someone else can come and save me from myself
I can't be who you areI can't be who you are

P/S I'm beginning to doubt if my absence would be missed when I'm 9411.6 Miles away from Singapore.

Save What?

If things are beyond redemption,
What can you do?
I guess you can only watch it self- destruct.

Enlightenment.

While I was bathing, I was thinking about stuffs when suddenly, a thought struck me! Haha, so here I am blogging for the second time for today.

Have you ever met selfish people who wouldn't give a shit about others? Like you will never ever see them sacrificing for anyone for that matter.

Well, I realized that those people are not exactly selfish, but rather, they are just narcissists who love themselves more than they can ever love anyone else. However, it is not like they will never share anything with others, BUT they will never share anything with others at the EXPENSE of themselves.

There is a limit to how much they can give/offer you. Maybe towards the people they love, the most they can give is equal to what they give themselves. Nothing more. Because they can't stand the idea of themselves "losing out". And logically, towards people who matter lesser, they give lesser. So looking at it rationally, you can't say they don't care. They do care, but they care about themselves more.

So next time, if you all were to meet someone like that, consider them as practical rather than selfish, because you gotta give them some credit for "caring". At the end of the day, what I know for sure is that what you give comes back to you. So to those "practical" people out there, please do not complain if you feel you are not treated too sincerely by others. Because sacrificing is probably the only pleasure you will never get to enjoy in life.

"I love you because I need you." rather than "I need you because I love you."

Pray Not.

I feel extremely queazy and I have the compelling urge to puke. Oh no, it's only the beginning the school term and I'm starting to feel sick. Not cool at all. What's more, CNY is just around the corner. :( Currently nursing on a piping hot cup of Milo. Hopefully it helps. I can't afford to fall ill!!!

Ironic.

Things that matters, we forget easily.
Things that no longer matter, we remember despite trying hard not to .
We humans are odd. Our memory retain stuffs that are actually redundant.

Seems like we should sieve out the unwanted thoughts/memories in our brains.

Time to Make a Difference!

Had a heart to heart talk with my friend today, and I realized that I want to be there for my friends whenever they need someone or a shoulder to lean on. As the saying goes, "a friend in need is a friend indeed". I want to be there to see them through and catch them before they fall right through.

Everybody makes mistakes,
No matter which path they take.
What's most important is you pick yourself up,
And in no circumstances can you ever say, "I want out."
I will be right there if you need someone,
Because i will try to help you in whatever you want.

First entry.

As you can all see, this blog is set up specially for friends and family to update them about my life in Buffalo. I'm not leaving for Buffalo yet. Only around August. But decided to get this blog done asap because I know I procrastinate too much. So it's now or never. Haha it is a good time that my Com125 module requires us to set up a blog, giving me a good kickstart. So here I am. :)


Hey Buffalo, here i come!